He was a motor guy, he repairs motocyle. Big motocycle. He always show me his motor and when he asked me to go on a date with me. I was like is he going to take me with a motorcycle. I even offered to use my car to go on this date. But he said he would pick me up. I was like okay. On that day, he came and he came with a car. A bmw. I was stunted. I should never judge people before I met someone. I think to myself.
In a month, I've met his family and he had met mine, he asked me in a hand of marriage and apparently I have found no reason for me to say no and just like that, we are doing it. We are getting married. Everything had move on so fast and swiftly. I cannot believe it. I went to Parit Buntaq to his kampung and we went to look for a ring. I was supposed to get engaged on the 22nd of March but the world was shocked by a virus that have no vaccines yet so the world have been on a lockdown. So the engagement was postponed. The marriage was supposed to happen on the 24th of July.
Here I am, God have given me a chance to know him a little bit more than I supposed to. I think God have a reason for all of these to happen. I have been doing my perangai of making tantrum and he has been very patient about it. I believe it is a good quality of a husband. Being patient of me because I can be a handful.
I hope this is a right decision. I have been nothing but feeling safe with him. Everyone have told me that I am very lucky to have met him even my dad so that is mindblowing to think. I just leave everything to God right now. If he is the one for me then he is the one for me. I am going with flow of life now. InsyaAllah in the future I'll look back at these moment and smile and think how fast it is I've met my future husband.
Almost 27 years old,
Najmin Roslan
